I Want to Meet You

I know handing over your personal information feels risky, and I get that. My wish is that you feel just at ease as I aspire to feel with you. For this reason, it’s important to verify that you are who you say you are so that I can feel safe to spend time with you. I ask for Employment/Identity Verification and 1-2 Provider References. If you have 3 provider references, you may bypass Identity/Employment Verification. In rare cases, I may allow no references with your Employment/Identity Verification.

All information you share is protected and confidential through encryption, very strong passwords, two step authentication, and a VPN. Your privacy is of the utmost importance to me. I would never compromise your privacy and identity, just like I expect you’d do the same for me.

All bookings require a 20% booking deposit plus a $200 accommodation deposit. I will follow up with how to make that deposit. Please read through my agreements and disclaimer first before moving onto my screening form. Thank you for trusting me. I look forward to hearing from you!

Love, Phoebe

Agreements

• When you arrive, please place my consideration in an unsealed envelope somewhere that is visible. If we’re meeting in public, please place it in something other than a white envelope, like a book, a card, etc. I will head to the bathroom to confirm.
• Please come to our date with great hygiene. I will ask you to shower and use mouthwash during our time together and I will do the same. I’m quite sensitive to smells. I do like colognes as long as they are subtle. The more natural they are, the better. I am very sensitive to cigarette smoke, so please take that into consideration.
• If we’re new to each other, please be attentive to me and be thoughtful. At any point, I have the right to rescind consent. Please respect any boundaries that arise and we will have a great time together!
• Please be on time.
• When there are overnights, I need 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep. When you book for 24 hours or more, we take 2 hours of time apart each day, so that we can both recharge through quality alone time. Taking space from each other amplifies the magnetism. Getting ready for the day or for sleep is not included in this alone time.
• When we spend 3 hours or more together, there is time spent in public. I am most turned on by shared experiences with others.
• If you want to add on additional time during our date, it is 600/hour.
• I accept donations for my time and companionship only. Anything beyond that is a natural expression between two consenting adults.

CANCELLATION POLICY

I value time deeply, yours and mine. If something comes up, please give me at least 48 hours of notice. With more than 48 hours of notice of needing to reschedule, I can apply your 20% booking deposit to a future booking within the next 3 months. Your lodging deposit will be forfeited, as lodging usually can’t be refunded. If you cancel within 48 hours, I require a 50% cancellation fee and no part of your deposit will be transferred to a future booking.

For FMTY trips, please give me at least 72 hours of notice that you need to reschedule, and I can apply your 50% deposit to a future booking within 3 months. Your lodging deposit will be forfeited, as lodging is covered for a FMTY. If you cancel within 72 hours, your deposit is forfeited. Any booking made constitutes an agreement to this clause.

Booking with me marks your consent and agreement to all of the above.

Screening Form